The devastating TRAP of believing that a pre-pre/nursery will get you the RESULTS you seek.
/The clients who work with us here at CMT know that the pre-pre/nursery will have about 10% to do with the success that their child will have in their assessments. The clients who work with us here at CMT know that 90% of the work will come from what they will do at home with their children.
Our clients find this empowering.
They have full responsibility over the success of their child in any assessment.
None of us have control over how our children will do in the assessments. Not me. Not you and not a 10-12k per term pre-prep/nursery.
I speak to many (many!) parents who hand over this control to their children’s pre-prep and nurseries every single day. They drop their kids off and head off to work and they firmly believe that everything is being done by the very expensive pre-prep or nursery that they are sending their child to.
Well, they are wrong. Devastatingly wrong.
And even more devastating is the fact that how a child does in an assessment is irreversible. As in, you won’t be able to change the outcome. What you can change however is your attitude towards these assessments. What you can change is how seriously your take them. And what you can change is your belief.
I’ve supported hundreds of children who have never set foot in an ultra pricey pre-prep or nursery and who have had incredible success in their assessments. The reason for their success was because of the incredible support that they received from home.
This devastating belief that it is up to a Hampstead Hill or a Mulberry House or a Clowns or a BLS to have 100% responsibility in the success of your child.
It is very disempowering.
I worked for 3 years as a class teacher across the school at one of the schools that I have listed above. I have nothing terrible to say about the school (it has its faults like all schools don’t get me wrong) but the school that I worked at was 100% not solely responsible for the success of the children who passed their assessments. And guess what? When I was there, we never claimed to be.
Do you know who is responsible for the success of your child?
YOU.
And only you.
And if you do not like that, then continue to send your child to one of the above (or the countless others) and continue to give all of your power to these pre-preps/nurseries. Continue to not know how your child is doing in phonics. Continue to not know how your child is doing in maths. Continue to not know how your child is able or unable to answer questions. Continue to not know which letters of the alphabet or numbers your child is able to write. I could go on.
Because schools like Habs/NLCS/Westminster aren’t too interested in the pre-prep/ nursery that your child goes to. What they are interested in is how your child learns, how your child interacts and how your child behaves.
